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Know someone born between October 23 and November 21? Interacting with an intense Scorpio will keep you on your toes. The Scorpion's reputation precedes it, after all—we're talking about an unyielding exterior and potentially painful venom if you get on its wrong side. But Scorpios are misunderstood, too. They're immensely loyal and passionate human beings who are ruled by Pluto, the planet of rebirth and transformation. Once this sign makes a soul connection, they go to the ends of the earth for their people, and they're persuasive enough to bring out the best in them, too. Let's learn more about what makes Scorpios tick and what ticks them off.
Loyalty that knows no bounds
As a fixed sign, Scorpio likes going steady. These October and November babies crave stability and loyalty and provide it in return. Their loved ones can generally rely on them to show up for the significant moments—they'll celebrate the milestones by your side and stick with you when all the world is against you. Once the Scorpion lets you past its tough armor, it demands trust. This sign can be jealous and possessive if a romantic relationship's foundations haven't been sufficiently built and acerbic if others' loyalty doesn't seem to match their own, so make sure you're not playing fast and loose with Scorpio's emotions or you will get stung.
Guardians of secrets
Ever felt nervous after telling someone a deeply held secret, like you've entrusted your delicate confession to the wrong hands? That's typically not the case with Scorpio. This sign acknowledges your vulnerability and would never blab unless their conscience compelled them to. This capacity for confidentiality isn't the norm, so it's a highly admirable Scorpio trait. Because of this respect for others' privacy, Scorpio finds itself in situations where two opposing parties reveal their side of the story and seek a neutral perspective. This is partly why this sign is so enigmatic and powerful—it knows a lot, gives nothing away, and moves with the confidence of someone backed up by the skeletons in everyone's closets.
The power of emotional depth
The Scorpion can only tolerate so much small talk before it gets bored. It's the more profound conversations and questions that intrigue this fascinating star sign. After Scorpio scopes everyone out, uncomfortable topics like religion, politics, and philosophy might appear. Or Scorpio could get right at the crux of what you find exciting and bothersome, subtly coaxing sensitive information from you before you even clock what's happening. Prepare for this emotional intensity. It's not everyone's cup of tea, but if you're picking up what Scorpio is putting down and find yourself on the same wavelength, it could be the start of a deep connection.
A strategic approach to relationships
Scorpios are survivors, and this is largely related to the strategic cultivation and maintenance of relationships. They are aware of the dynamics at play in a room and how they fit into the bigger picture. This knowledge comes from being expert secret keepers and naturally intuitive or able to detect nuances in facial expressions and interactions. The Scorpion is intelligent, pays attention to detail, and is aware of folks' underlying motivations. This sign tends to give good advice and rises to lofty positions within extended families or work hierarchies.
Passionate and protective
Once they declare their feelings, Scorpios are ardent. They pull their significant others into fiery courtships, and regardless of the eventual outcome, these partners have memories seared into the very fibers of their being. Scorpio is unforgettable, not least because of the way they protect family members, friends, and lovers. You can count on this sign's unwavering support, and Scorpio will often protect your feelings tactfully or behind the scenes. But sometimes, protective instincts can manifest as unwanted restrictions, so you'll need to chat with the Scorpio in your life and address their concerns and controlling behaviors. Also, those who are in the inner circle become privy to the Scorpion's weaknesses and soft spots, and this sign rewards those who prove they can be counted upon to contain the intel.
Confronting the status quo
Scorpios challenge the people around them to confront the essential truths of their personal and collective situations. Just because something is a longheld tradition doesn't make it right, and Scorpio isn't content to simply think subversive thoughts—this sign voices its unconventional takes and wins both fans and enemies in the process. Lots of people benefit from the status quo, Scorpios included, but this sign recognizes its privilege and highlights the hypocrisy not just among its nearest and dearest but frequently beyond. This authenticity attracts similarly genuine characters into Scorpio's orbit, but it can also mean clashes with parents and estrangements from siblings who fear its consequences.
The complexity of intimacy
Although Scorpio's fidelity is rarely in question, relationships with this star sign aren't straightforward. The Scorpion's need for closeness is at odds with an inherent inclination towards independence and keeping some distance. This can be confusing for those who aren't accustomed to this sign's idiosyncrasies. The Scorpion will declare their love for you but simultaneously require solitude and 'space.' Don't take it personally. Scorpios use their alone time to recharge, and you can use the opportunity to refill your own cup. Plus, absence usually makes the heart grow fonder.
Transformative influence
Scorpios are associated with Pluto, the planet of transformation. This ambitious and creative star sign encourages its loved ones to grow and evolve. The Scorpio house is not one where members can sit on their laurels. Yes, routine is welcome, but that routine must give rise to new ways of being, and stubborn Scorpios can overstep boundaries and cause friction in the pursuit of what they perceive as progress. Still, Scorpions push the envelope, and this can lead to substantial success in whatever industry they choose to participate in. It also means the Scorpio bedroom can be a game-changer.
Seeking faithfulness and honesty
Consider the Scorpios you know. They're not likely the social butterflies who have dozens of 'close' friends from myriad activities. Scorpions tend to keep their circle tight. This sign's desire for absolute sincerity and loyalty in their relationships is non-negotiable, so whoever doesn't fit the bill isn't admitted to the inner sanctum. The focus is on quality over quantity, and it's an approach that works well for the most part. Scorpio would benefit from being a little more flexible every now and then.
Complicated and challenging
We're dealing with complicated individuals. Scorpios can enter a brooding, negative mental space that's difficult for those who care about them to navigate. It can feel like you're trying to sidestep landmines when Scorpio's past wounds and insecurities come to the surface and make them sensitive and angry. But when the clouds pass, you're rewarded with a sunny disposition and it feels wonderful and inspiring. Figuring out healthy tools to make it through the rough patches is critical, and therapy can certainly assist in this regard. A qualified counselor can help you or your Scorpio figure out triggers and more productive communication styles to foster domestic harmony.