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It makes sense that Aries (March 21st to April 19th) is the first sign on the zodiac wheel because this star sign wants to come first in everything they do! They strive to "win" in all areas of their life -- and their love life is no exception.
Being the cardinal fire sign ruled by Mars lights a flame under Aries' already passionate nature. Like the Energizer Bunny, they keep on going and going, so finding an adventurous romantic partner who can keep up with them is their dream come true. Unfortunately, their endless desire to achieve at all costs comes across as impatient, domineering, and self-centered. Despite being deeply devoted lovers, their fiery nature is often misunderstood and can sabotage many a romantic relationship. On the plus side, Aries never wants to let their loved ones down. They're on a lifelong mission to better themselves and learn from their mistakes.
Aries in Love
When Aries fall in love, they fall hard. If an Aries is in love with you, you'll know about it. They make it unmistakably clear when they have feelings for someone. They may come on strong, but their red-hot passion for you will knock you off your feet. They want you to fall just as head over heels for them as they have for you.
Despite all their swagger, Aries is a hopeless romantic at heart who still believes in chivalry and courtly love. As the proverbial "knights in shining armor" of the zodiac, they place their loved ones on a lofty pedestal and will defend them to the death. Spontaneous acts of love and surprise romantic gestures keep their passions burning. This sign expects total faithfulness in return for their wholehearted devotion. Unfortunately, this can make them jealous and possessive of their romantic partners.
Aries' Approach to Romance
Love is a conquest for Aries. They love the thrill of the chase. They're very forthright about what they want, so they'll be the ones making the first move when they're interested in someone.
This star sign's boundless energy means they'll make date night plans that offer far more excitement than the standard dinner-and-a-movie routine. If the relationship progresses further, their lovers can expect impromptu weekend getaways and spur-of-the-moment vacations. As spontaneous romancers, Aries are never boring and always full of surprises. However, when left unchecked, Aries' headfirst impulsiveness can eventually get tiresome for a love interest with a more laid-back nature.
Sexual Compatibility with Aries
When it comes to Aries and sex, they tend to be dominant in their intimate relationships -- but they do not want a totally submissive partner. (That's boring!) They're always up for a challenge and love when their lover takes the lead.
Adventurous by nature, Aries is always up for trying new and exciting things between the sheets. That doesn't mean they aren't faithful lovers, however -- quite the opposite. This loyal star sign is bored by routine and predictability in the bedroom more than anything else. Throwing in a few sexy surprises now and again will keep them hot under the collar for you.
Aries' Ideal Partners
Regarding Aries relationship compatibility, fellow fire signs Leo, Sagittarius, and other Aries have no problems getting hot and heavy with this headstrong star sign. When things get heated, that only makes them hotter for one another.
Any sign that complements or balances out Aries' forthright personality makes a good match. Intellectual Gemini keeps Aries on their toes, while free-spirited Aquarius shares their zest for life. Easygoing Libra loves to be chased, and Aries loves to chase them.
Although daydreamy Pisces will gladly support Aries' big ambitions, the other emotional water signs -- Cancer and Scorpio -- find the fiery sign far too hot to handle. Reserved Virgo, stubborn Taurus, and egotistical Capricorn feel the same.
Challenges in Love for Aries
Under their self-important exterior, this star sign is secretly sensitive. It's surprisingly easy to wound their pride. Aries doesn't tolerate criticism well, especially from someone they love. Argue with one, and they'll rarely be the one who backs down first. They also are very possessive and can't stand when their romantic partner gives attention to anyone else -- or receives it. Jealousy will consume them if they don't feel like they mean as much to their partner as their partner means to them.
Despite Aries' fiery desire to win arguements, they will likely give their lovers the cold shoulder in a conflict. A lover who hurts Aries deeply enough can expect to be iced out indefinitely.
Aries and Relationship Growth
Making it work with headstrong Aries can feel like an uphill battle, but the strong, loving bond you'll share will be worth your while. This physically active star sign thrives in partnerships with plenty of adventure, so maintaining excitement can help you keep an iron-clad emotional connection over time. More importantly, an Aries in love wants to know that you are as deeply devoted to them as they are to you. While it may seem like this self-sufficient star sign doesn't need much emotional support, they crave love and affection just like anyone else.
Aries and Breakups
Aries doesn't give up on a failing relationship easily, if only because that would feel like losing, and "loser" is not in their vocabulary. As problem-solvers, they'll try to see the errors in their ways, and they will do everything they can to make it work. (Beware, this star sign is the master of mindblowing makeup sex.)
If things do end, however, Aries' passions cool off very quickly. They'll race to be the first to move on and find someone else before their exes do.
Aries and Long-Term Compatibility
Nothing lights this cardinal fire sign's fire like being with someone who makes them proud. However, this star sign's competitive nature means they want to be one who impresses -- not the other way around. For that reason, Aries' dream partner is laid back and modest about their personal abilities and accomplishments. They're happy to stay on the sidelines, cheering Aries on in their successes (and occasional failures).
Managing Conflict with an Aries Partner
Although Aries has a fiery temper, their anger burns itself out quickly and never lasts long. Just give them some space to cool down and let the steam dissipate.
Anyone dating an Aries should understand that they need to be in charge. It's not their fault -- as natural leaders, that's just how they are. Though this star sign is happy to leave the day-to-day details to their partner, they will want to feel like they have control over big decisions. Instead of butting heads over this, offer your own input with gentle guidance, logic, and a pinch of praise. As a rule, Aries hates when anyone tells them what to do, but they don't want their beloved partner to be a doormat either.
Embracing Aries Traits in Relationships
When you're romantically involved with an Aries, they'll treat you like the queen (or king) of their world -- because, in their mind, you are! You'll rarely get bored with this star sign because they always have a romantic surprise up their sleeves to keep the spark alive for you both. They are enthusiastic lovers who strive to be "number one" in your heart forever, and they'll work hard not to lose that spot. You can count on your Aries lover to bring boundless energy, fiery passion, and unwavering loyalty to your partnership.